A man named Gershon from Kakamega County has narrated how he granted his wife permission to look for someone else to satisfy her sexually.
Gershon’s account on the Golden Marriage Show alongside his wife lucidated on his decision, highlighting his encouragement for his wife to address her sexual needs outside of Kakamega, albeit with a stipulation to safeguard their children’s well-being.
In his candid dialogue with his wife, Gershon emphasized the importance of individual choice and guided decision-making.
“Before reaching that decision I also advised her, nikamwambia, najua mungu ametupatia vitu mingi isipokuwa kimoja tu, choice making yako mwenyewe, decision making iyo is individual but you must also be guided. Nikamwambia,” he said.
He articulated his acknowledgment of the limitations posed by age and physical constraints, expressing his desire for his wife to find fulfillment without the burden of guilt or secrecy.
‘at your age you’re still young na haka kamuheshimiwa nikama katakuwa bado kanakusumbua na wewe unasugua kwa mgongo wangu na mimi sina namna nakudanganya nimelala, najifanya sijui kitu unaniambgia. badala ya kuwa na haya yote ningependa uweza kuchagua mtu wako ama watu wako’
“I talked to my wife , nikamwambia ‘lakini utanifanyia tu jambio moja usifanyie hapa kakamega , not because of me , we have kids here.” Gerishom disclosed.
Ultimately, Gershon’s actions reflect a profound commitment to his wife’s happiness and well-being, reaffirming the enduring strength of their bond amidst adversity.